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dimswati

Active Member
I feel guilty for even thinking this, but I can't stop feeling sorry for my neighbour. From the outside, she has a marriage, but it never seems like a happy one!
Her husband barely shows her affection, he treats her poorly & she always looks emotionally drained. Over time, I've noticed different young men visiting her house when he's away. I don't know if they're her friends or what, I don't know the full story & I don't want to judge her. Maybe she's making choices she never imagined she'd make, or maybe she's simply searching for the love, attention, and respect she's been missing for years. It reminds me that we rarely know what someone is going through behind closed doors although she stays in the same society.

What do u guys think?
 
It's a lose game from both sides as one can't provide affection and love properly and the other can't make him/her to get enough affection or attention from them and for the last choice the choose something that everyone else is doing outside the marriage .
Kinda shame but don't have any wrong thoughts about them as they have proper rights for their lives.
Just hope they gonna be fine and happy
 

imjrbunny

New Member
I feel guilty for even thinking this, but I can't stop feeling sorry for my neighbour. From the outside, she has a marriage, but it never seems like a happy one!
Her husband barely shows her affection, he treats her poorly & she always looks emotionally drained. Over time, I've noticed different young men visiting her house when he's away. I don't know if they're her friends or what, I don't know the full story & I don't want to judge her. Maybe she's making choices she never imagined she'd make, or maybe she's simply searching for the love, attention, and respect she's been missing for years. It reminds me that we rarely know what someone is going through behind closed doors although she stays in the same society.

What do u guys think?
Hi
 

dimswati

Active Member
It's a lose game from both sides as one can't provide affection and love properly and the other can't make him/her to get enough affection or attention from them and for the last choice the choose something that everyone else is doing outside the marriage .
Kinda shame but don't have any wrong thoughts about them as they have proper rights for their lives.
Just hope they gonna be fine and happy
Seems legit.
Feels weird sometimes seeing young guys leave her apartment...
 

Gorgeous_Aura

Well-Known Member
Typical CCTV mindset.

It is her life and her live it the way she wants. Unless she chooses to share her personal life publicly or asks for people’s opinions, it’s nobody else’s business.

You even admitted you don’t know the full story, yet you wrote an entire narrative about her.

She’s not pretending to be someone she is not. She is living her life, and she’ll deal with both her mistakes and her successes.

And what is with mentioning that “young men” visit her? Why does their age matter? If they were older men, would that somehow make it okay? Maybe stop turning assumptions into stories about someone you barely know.
 

dimswati

Active Member
Typical CCTV mindset.

It is her life and her live it the way she wants. Unless she chooses to share her personal life publicly or asks for people’s opinions, it’s nobody else’s business.

You even admitted you don’t know the full story, yet you wrote an entire narrative about her.

She’s not pretending to be someone she is not. She is living her life, and she’ll deal with both her mistakes and her successes.

And what is with mentioning that “young men” visit her? Why does their age matter? If they were older men, would that somehow make it okay? Maybe stop turning assumptions into stories about someone you barely know.
Yeah right, shouldn't be making assumptions. It's her life afterall.
 

dimswati

Active Member
Typical CCTV mindset.

It is her life and her live it the way she wants. Unless she chooses to share her personal life publicly or asks for people’s opinions, it’s nobody else’s business.

You even admitted you don’t know the full story, yet you wrote an entire narrative about her.

She’s not pretending to be someone she is not. She is living her life, and she’ll deal with both her mistakes and her successes.

And what is with mentioning that “young men” visit her? Why does their age matter? If they were older men, would that somehow make it okay? Maybe stop turning assumptions into stories about someone you barely know.
I see this platform as a place to share my thoughts with strangers, not to seek validation or make friends. I respect that everyone has different opinions & I don't intend to offend anyone with my unfiltered thoughts typed. If you disagree, that's okay!
 

Gorgeous_Aura

Well-Known Member
I see this platform as a place to share my thoughts with strangers, not to seek validation or make friends. I respect that everyone has different opinions & I don't intend to offend anyone with my unfiltered thoughts typed. If you disagree, that's okay!

Unfiltered thoughts dont automatically make for fair opinions, especially when they are about a third person you barely know.

And u already agreed that we should not make assumptions.
 
Yeah messed things are not my type but messy girl in my bed is my type so don't wanna say much about today's generation's thoughts about relation boundaries and fun in bed and all but we r matching alot .
 
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