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Why do I like BDSM?

Huh.
The word slut isn’t gendered there!

As a dominant, I address a few with full consent.
Outside BDSM, well, some people really deserve it because of their behaviour. again, not gender-based.

@intellectual_kink @THAT_STRICT_MAN ur thoughts?
I think that it's absolutely correct...BDSM is not based on Gender but power dynamics and roles and it's upon the person what to choose in that...And other than that, Everyone has their preferences...But even in that, respect matters the most, and I agree on that
 

intellectual_kink

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BDSM dynamic has never been gender based. I even had people who were asexual and have practiced BDSM. It's more about power dynamics. Inside the play i would love to call them with names if they are comfortable with the process consent. But once the play ends. I refrain myself from calling names. Because though she is submissive but she isn't gonna be called a slut apart from within the play. Nope nope. Outside BDSM I usually don't. I only will use my foul mouth if someone genuinely deserves it.
 

Gorgeous_Aura

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BDSM dynamic has never been gender based. I even had people who were asexual and have practiced BDSM. It's more about power dynamics. Inside the play i would love to call them with names if they are comfortable with the process consent. But once the play ends. I refrain myself from calling names. Because though she is submissive but she isn't gonna be called a slut apart from within the play. Nope nope. Outside BDSM I usually don't. I only will use my foul mouth if someone genuinely deserves it.
Well said @intellectual_kink
 
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Gorgeous_Aura

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I think that it's absolutely correct...BDSM is not based on Gender but power dynamics and roles and it's upon the person what to choose in that...And other than that, Everyone has their preferences...But even in that, respect matters the most, and I agree on that
In bdsm its consent. Outside too. But some mf ask for it by their character
 
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Gorgeous_Aura

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I understand your frustration with those people...I can say that you have met many people which fits this particular 'Description'...I'm sorry for whatever happened in the past, but you deserve respect as well...
Respect anf all is fine. I get that. Some chu people cant get it.
 
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THAT_STRICT_MAN

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Why do I like BDSM?

Huh.
The word slut isn’t gendered there!

As a dominant, I address a few with full consent.
Outside BDSM, well, some people really deserve it because of their behaviour. again, not gender-based.

@intellectual_kink @THAT_STRICT_MAN ur thoughts?
Well, calling anyone with names should be definitely with consent, what i love about BDSM is the structure, the discipline that comes in the boundaries are so clearly defined. Its so difficult in the other world though, sometimes i feel these people need to be put into place the right place they deserve i only wish they land into bdsm someday so that doms like us can teach them how to be a better person by inculcating some manners
Aura my girl, protect your mental peace by any means keep giving people what they deserve and dont let that shine fade.
Lots of love
 

Gorgeous_Aura

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Well, calling anyone with names should be definitely with consent, what i love about BDSM is the structure, the discipline that comes in the boundaries are so clearly defined. Its so difficult in the other world though, sometimes i feel these people need to be put into place the right place they deserve i only wish they land into bdsm someday so that doms like us can teach them how to be a better person by inculcating some manners
Aura my girl, protect your mental peace by any means keep giving people what they deserve and dont let that shine fade.
Lots of love
Thanks Strict Man
 
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