Is it bad to be here @29 ;

Aaditya_

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that's what i feel too even as a boy that is it ethical to fuck these many girls, shouldn't i just have one girl whom i love, but maybe lust isn't as bad as we think, maybe there is some meaning in fucking and getting fucked too and not just in the idea of love that those movies have put in our mind, maybe it's okay to fuck and fuck hard.
 

uvula

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Idc abt ethics tbh. I dont want to go to bed feeling like a slut. it's a me thing. I am not gonna abject everybody else to my opinion. I am not Hitler.
 

Aaditya_

New Member
Idc abt ethics tbh. I dont want to go to bed feeling like a slut. it's a me thing. I am not gonna abject everybody else to my opinion. I am not Hitler.
soo how do you feel about all this ?? do you sometimes regret diving too much into sexual stuffs ? in my case i feel this is making me numb towards other aspect of life
 

uvula

Active Member
90% of the said "diving" was smut.( porn feels superficial to me but I still watch sometimes).
And ya ig i do spend a lot of time reading smut. only cuz I am rly picky when it comes to kinks and stuff.
It doesn't numb anything.( If it does for u, u shud rly stop cuz that sounds serious). ig it did change my opinion of a sex life. likeness I just have higher expectations rn. lol
 

Aaditya_

New Member
yeah like, i get lots of dopamine from these things, and it set a bar in my brain ( as what gives me pleasure ) and regular life activity doens't carry as much pleasure, so i lack interest or can say feel numb toward those things, if i stop getting invloved in this then i can seek meaning and pleasure from the everyday activities, like talking to a friend, cooking for myself, etc
 
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