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Casanova636

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dimswati said:
Sometimes I wonder why people are so obsessed with asking, “When are you getting married?” As if marriage is the next mandatory milestone? The moment you reach a certain age, everyone suddenly has an opinion about your personal life... relatives, friends, colleagues, even people you barely know. Maybe they genuinely care, maybe it’s social conditioning or maybe they simply believe that everyone should follow the same timeline set by society. But life doesn’t come with a fixed schedule. Marriage is a deeply personal decision & it should happen when you genuinely feel ready for it, not simply because people around you think it’s time. There’s nothing wrong with taking your time, figuring yourself out and choosing for yourself!
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Yeah agree people say and started to have opinion about your life and definitely you should do it when you are ready...

But another side of it is if your parents or closed one ask you to get married is for your own good...
And my point of view behind that is its good only because biologically its good to get married so that futher it will be less complex in terms of becoming parents and futher things wrt happy balanced life...

If not marriage then atleast plan accordingly to have partner in life...Definitely its good thing to have a person who cares for you, loves you and priorities you over anything and loves you in way that no other can...
 
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dimswati

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Casanova636 said:
Yeah agree people say and started to have opinion about your life and definitely you should do it when you are ready...

But another side of it is if your parents or closed one ask you to get married is for your own good...
And my point of view behind that is its good only because biologically its good to get married so that futher it will be less complex in terms of becoming parents and futher things wrt happy balanced life...

If not marriage then atleast plan accordingly to have partner in life...Definitely its good thing to have a person who cares for you, loves you and priorities you over anything and loves you in way that no other can...
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You have a strong point.
 
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Badass_Pune

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dimswati said:
Ya right but why the pressure after a certain age? Sometimes it gets annoying when everyone around you keeps saying that.
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Hmm yes like they say it ki we don't know what life will become once we are late in doing something. Actually it sometimes becomes difficult to understand the situation. Also everything and activity has its owner time and essence and our elders don't want to loose it.
 
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