soul mate is your perfect fit

[withlove]

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...” ​

 

[Gorgeous_Aura]

oho??? I ddnt know

 

[withlove]

You should know

 

[Missmeadow]

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“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. ​

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A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. ​

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A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...” ​

If someone changes you deeply but doesn’t stay.... was their purpose truly growth ?? or are we finding meaning to make sense of the loss??

 

[Broad_Knight]

If someone changes you deeply but doesn’t stay.... was their purpose truly growth ?? or are we finding meaning to make sense of the loss??

Maybe both can be true.. sometimes people truly change us for the better, even if they don't stay....
and .. sometimes, we create meaning from the pain.. Coz, that's how we heal.. Either way...
Pain is real.. and Growth is choice.

 

[Missmeadow]

Maybe both can be true.. sometimes people truly change us for the better, even if they don't stay....
and .. sometimes, we create meaning from the pain.. Coz, that's how we heal.. Either way...
Pain is real.. and Growth is choice.

Sometimes I just wonder if growth is just surviving a loss that never really leaves us??? ......maybe growth is just the name we give to the pain when we finally learn to carry it