SevenMinutesBeforeGoodbye
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Sympathy and empathy.
Two words, big difference.
Showing sympathy is easy, but having empathy isn't.
A person who's truly empathic not only shows kindness or comforts others, but truly understands and feels the pain of another person. Even when being hurt by someone, an empath would try to understand why this person chose to hurt, why he or she is behaving like this.
An empath doesn't hold grudges for a long time. They get hurt easily, and they're always there when anybody needs them. But when they need someone to be there, someone to understand them, they have none.
Being an empathetic person is a curse, and it's rare to be an empath these days, where people just seek revenge. I'm an empathetic person who tries to understand why another person chose to do wrong to me.
Sometimes I do react, but mostly I let go. I try sorting and handling things calmly till things reach a certain level. Many of you would have experienced this: I have been with you guys when you felt low, kept checking on you, even for health and meals. I even tried helping people who did wrong to me, thinking that they are young, they don't understand much, they never got love or care, they are lonely.
But like I said before, being an empath is a curse, because the more you understand, the more you try to be there for everyone, you realize you are just being used and you don't have anybody. You can't let this feeling go because you have been there with everybody who needed you.
I'm empathetic. I don't fight easily, unless provoked a lot. I don't abuse, defame, or seek revenge. I talk back, and I'm rude when it's truly needed. So yes, I'm straightforward, rude, and angry at times, but I haven't done anything wrong to anybody. People who choose to do wrong to me or spread things about me are mere cowards, and I don't care about them. People are free to believe rumours, and still I'll choose to stay silent with all the proof. I don't seek revenge or drama. I prioritize my peace over everything.
Thank you for being good co-chatters to me - @Soul22 @Saiyan @HERSEVENMINUTES @POISED_GIRL @Gorgeous_Aura @Abhii096 , Niino, @BuzzZ @wisefool @H2hoe @IMatrixI @Kimiya @Masoom_
@PositiveVibez
@Mechanic_ @Missmeadow @minazukiii @Devaratha @Aniketexe
Thank you - @HERSEVENMINUTES @QTie @Dan12345 @Stellar_Levi @Unhinged_Specter @Bomboi__22
@ILetTheDogsOut @theblackberryuser @withlove @Melophile @Roronoa_Zoro @blubrycheesecake
@Psy_Duck
Thank you for being a lesson to me in a way -
@Shrey0_0 , Domaa aka Selmoon, @Roti , @Autumn_99 aka Stars, @WinnieThePoohBear , @DarkerThanBlack @Kappiri @Healer
I just hope, I can only hope, that people use this site for its purpose and choose not to do wrong to someone.
Be kind, stay happy..
Two words, big difference.
Showing sympathy is easy, but having empathy isn't.
A person who's truly empathic not only shows kindness or comforts others, but truly understands and feels the pain of another person. Even when being hurt by someone, an empath would try to understand why this person chose to hurt, why he or she is behaving like this.
An empath doesn't hold grudges for a long time. They get hurt easily, and they're always there when anybody needs them. But when they need someone to be there, someone to understand them, they have none.
Being an empathetic person is a curse, and it's rare to be an empath these days, where people just seek revenge. I'm an empathetic person who tries to understand why another person chose to do wrong to me.
Sometimes I do react, but mostly I let go. I try sorting and handling things calmly till things reach a certain level. Many of you would have experienced this: I have been with you guys when you felt low, kept checking on you, even for health and meals. I even tried helping people who did wrong to me, thinking that they are young, they don't understand much, they never got love or care, they are lonely.
But like I said before, being an empath is a curse, because the more you understand, the more you try to be there for everyone, you realize you are just being used and you don't have anybody. You can't let this feeling go because you have been there with everybody who needed you.
I'm empathetic. I don't fight easily, unless provoked a lot. I don't abuse, defame, or seek revenge. I talk back, and I'm rude when it's truly needed. So yes, I'm straightforward, rude, and angry at times, but I haven't done anything wrong to anybody. People who choose to do wrong to me or spread things about me are mere cowards, and I don't care about them. People are free to believe rumours, and still I'll choose to stay silent with all the proof. I don't seek revenge or drama. I prioritize my peace over everything.
Thank you for being good co-chatters to me - @Soul22 @Saiyan @HERSEVENMINUTES @POISED_GIRL @Gorgeous_Aura @Abhii096 , Niino, @BuzzZ @wisefool @H2hoe @IMatrixI @Kimiya @Masoom_
@PositiveVibez
@Mechanic_ @Missmeadow @minazukiii @Devaratha @Aniketexe
Thank you - @HERSEVENMINUTES @QTie @Dan12345 @Stellar_Levi @Unhinged_Specter @Bomboi__22
@ILetTheDogsOut @theblackberryuser @withlove @Melophile @Roronoa_Zoro @blubrycheesecake
@Psy_Duck
Thank you for being a lesson to me in a way -
@Shrey0_0 , Domaa aka Selmoon, @Roti , @Autumn_99 aka Stars, @WinnieThePoohBear , @DarkerThanBlack @Kappiri @Healer
I just hope, I can only hope, that people use this site for its purpose and choose not to do wrong to someone.
Be kind, stay happy..
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